Monthly Archives: February, 2012
Pre-Pillow Talk
I’m really loud when I have sex. I think sex is best when it’s a symphony of noises: crescendos, decrescendos, and a fucking harmony of heavy breathing and words. Granted, … Continue reading
Kink for Beginners
So you’ve finally raised the courage to mention to your super-special-sex-friend (SSSF) that you would like to experiment with a little power-exchange (maybe you want to tell SSSF what to … Continue reading
Growing Up
The first man who asked me to sleep with him didn’t love me. I didn’t love him either. At the time, that seemed irrelevant, but looking back, I have to … Continue reading
Relax
I tend to be a fairly high-strung person. In high school, even for the simplest multiple choice tests, I would check over my answers at least three times, all to … Continue reading
Obsession
Maybe it wasn’t really love. Maybe it was obsession. Toiletries spilled out of her arms as she unpacked the Suburban with her mother on that first day of freshman year. … Continue reading
On “Taking” Virginities
Ask a group of sexually active college students about how they lost their virginity, and you’re sure to get a range of views. There’s the “lost it to a long … Continue reading
Three’s A Crowd?
Threesomes intrigue, repulse, and scare the shit out of people. And they’re all over the media, put on a pedestal as the crowning achievement of sexual experience for men. Mostly, … Continue reading
